It's okay.

Hey guys, I'm really sorry I haven't posted a blog post in a very long time but I was really busy with school because the exams started last week (I still have one to go) but today I want to take the time to write this post because I wanted to write this one for a long time and thought now was the right time. I hope this post helps a few you because I just want you to know that everything is gonna be okay (:
So let's begin.

I just got out of a very bad period (still not completely out of it though) where I just felt sad and unaccepted and I didn't want to do anything or go anywhere and stuff like that. And whenever someone would ask me if I'm okay I would always say yes even though, I really wasn't but I just didn't want to bore them with my problems because I thought they didn't care. But to be honest, I really think they did because if you're friends ask if everything is okay, they really want to know if you are and they want you to tell them if you aren't, because that's what friends are for isn't it? And if you're like me and are going through so much at the same time, talking realy does help. I kept my problems for myself for a very long time and that wasn't a good thing to do. And then one night, when I just couldn't take it anymore, I called a friend of mine and just told her everything, and you what she said? She said: "I wish you told this earlier so I could've helped you". And then I realised that it's okay to tell your problems to someone. So if you reading this, are dealing with some problems, call someone who can help you or just go up to your parents and tell them because believe me, they do care and do want to help you!

Another thing I have been dealing with recently is having to let go of some friends. The thing is, my 'best friend' isn't talking to me anymore and we kind of just aren't really friends anymore and in the beginning, this bothered me a lot because she did mean a lot to me but you can't please everyone and some friendships just don't last forever, and I realised that now. I sometimes still wish it was different but some people come and stay but some just come and then leave after a while, and also that is okay. You can impossibly keep everyone in your life. And when it's one of your best friends that decides to leave, it hurts at first but you still have your other friends and they didn't leave, you just have to accept the fact that people leave and new people come. And once again, if this bothers you, talk to someone about it, they might give you helpful advise and you might realise you are okay with them leaving.

And one last thing I want to talk about is being alone. This might seem scary to some people, having to go shopping alone, or just walking alone somewhere. Believe me, I had serious problems with this. I just always kept thinking that people would think I'm weird because I'm walking alone but they really don't care! They won't think you don't have any friends or something like that, they won't even think anything. They won't even see you probably (don't take this wrong) So it is okay to go somewhere by yourself, I even recommend it, I went shopping alone recently and I actually really enjoyed it, you just don't have to pay attention to anyone else and can just really focus on yourself and go to shops you want and stuff (:

I don't know if this post makes any sense but I just wanted to let you know that it's okay to be alone, sad, .. And it's also okay to talk to someone about that because you never know what great advice they might have! (:
Don't keep a problem you have for yourself for a long time because that will only make you more sad (:

I hope this helped a few of you because I don't want you to be sad (:
If you have any problems and you think you have nobody to talk to, you do, and if you want you can even talk to me, just send me something on twitter and I will be glad to help you! (:

xoxo,
Cato

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