My 2014 + New year's resolutions ☺

Hey guys!

It's the last day of 2014 today, for me at least, it just turned 2015 in Sydney at this very moment how crazy is that? Anyways, I was thinking about all the things that happened in 2014 and thought I would share that with you guys because I love you (aww so sweet of me, no really thank you for the support I really do love you) So let's get started! (:

2014 wasn't always that positive for me because it was the year I realized you can't please everyone and you can't stay friends with everybody (if you want me to do a full blog post on that let me knw in the comments!) even though you're doing your best to keep them in your life. But I also learned that that's totally fine, people come and go, sometimes some people have to go to make place for new people (:

But losing friends also had a positive side to it for me because I found out who my 'real friends' are and I am super glad I have them (: I always say, 'rather few good friends than a lot of fake friends'

I also had a period in 2014 where I was just not interested in anything and I would always make up excuses so I wouldn't have to to something or go somewhere. I also wasn't motivated at all for school and I hope that that's gonna be different in 2015 (:

2014 was also the year I cut my hair short and I actually wanted to donate it but it wasn't long enough so I just cut it off anyway. Sometimes I regret this choice because I loved my long hair and I knew so many cute hairstyles that I can't do now, but hair grows back so I just have to wait (:

My parents don't want me to let it grown back because they hated my long hair haha. Oh and I also have this crazy idea of having my hair ombré, let me know if you think I should do it or not (:

Another exciting thing that happened in 2014 is that I started working! Here in Belgium you can start a student job from the age of 16. The main reason I started working is because I'm going to Greece with my school next year and my parents always said that if I want to go I'll have to pay for it myself. But I also started working just because a little bit extra money once in a while comes in very handy! And I don't know why but since I started working (I work as a waitress in a restaurant) I gained a lot of confidence and I really do like my job! It pays well and the people I have to work with are all very nice (:

And last but not least: I started my blog in 2014! This blog is only 5 months old (:

I've had the idea of starting a blog in my mind since probably 2013 but I didn't start one because I was afraid what people would think of it but now I really don't care and I am very happy with the support I get, even though that's not a lot but even if I had only 1 reader I would be so thankful because it's crazy to think that people even find my blog I mean, I don't get how they find it because it isn't famous at all. So I just wanna say a big thank you to all of you and I hope that you will keep on supporting me trough 2015 and the years after that because I just love writing on my blog and I have a lot of fun ideas for future blog posts! (:

Now on to my new year's resolutions:

-Put more effort into school and my hobbies

-Don't let people down

-Care less about what people will think

-Pick up my (actually my dad's) camera and start taking pictures for this blog

- Save money so I can buy my own camera

-HAVE AN AMAZING 2015

I don't really like making resolutions but I think these are definitely some resolutions I can accomplish! (:

I hope you have an amazing New Year's and I hope you have an awesome 2015, I have a really good feeling about 2015 so let's make it awesome together! (:

I hope you liked this post (sorry if it's a bit long) and I will see you in 2015! (:

Love you sosososososo much!

xoxo. 

Cato (twitter: @xCato__)

New Year's Eve Outfit Ideas

Hey guys! I'm back! I'm so sorry I didn't write a blogspost in a while but I was just super busy with exams and the holidays and stuff, I'm still kind of busy right now but I saw a lot of NYE outfit ideas and I thought 'you know what? I wanna make an outfit post' so here I am, at 2AM, writing an outfit blog post! I put together 3 gorgeous outfits that would be absolutely perfect for NYE! As I was putting these together I fell in love with them and wanted to buy them so I really love them and I hope you do too! (:

OUTFIT 1:

Can we just take a moment of silence for these adorable shoes please? They are probably my favourite shoes ever (even though I don't own them) I just can't get over how cute they are! The playsuit is also very adorable I must say. Put these two together and bam! Perfect outfit! (:

Playsuit: New Look
Shoes: New look











OUTFIT 2:

Once again: those shoes! I think I'm a shoe person haha! I just thought these silver shoes would really bring out the silver of the dress plus they are amazing soooo..
The dress is so cute like, I can't even begin to tell you how much I want to buy it right now!

Dress: New Look
Shoes: New Look











OUTFIT 3:

This is my favourite outfit of them all. I currently really got into leather skirts and I think that top just looks perfect with it! I love how it's gold and shiny but not too gold and shiny, get what I mean? This is the first outfit I put together and after I made this one I really had to resist myself from buying it. I don't know what it is but I am completely in love! The top is also cropped so I think it's perfect for this skirt.

Top: New Look
Skirt: New Look
Shoes: New Look











There you go, I hope you like these outfits and you've got a little bit of inspiation for your NYE outfit (:
Oh btw, you may have noticed that all of the clothing pieces are from New Look, I am not sponsored by them or anything (I wish haha), and I also didn't plan this or anything, I just really seem to like what they have in store at the moment (:
See you guys soon! Happy holidays, love you! <3

xoxo,
Cato (twitter: @xCato__ )

It's okay.

Hey guys, I'm really sorry I haven't posted a blog post in a very long time but I was really busy with school because the exams started last week (I still have one to go) but today I want to take the time to write this post because I wanted to write this one for a long time and thought now was the right time. I hope this post helps a few you because I just want you to know that everything is gonna be okay (:
So let's begin.

I just got out of a very bad period (still not completely out of it though) where I just felt sad and unaccepted and I didn't want to do anything or go anywhere and stuff like that. And whenever someone would ask me if I'm okay I would always say yes even though, I really wasn't but I just didn't want to bore them with my problems because I thought they didn't care. But to be honest, I really think they did because if you're friends ask if everything is okay, they really want to know if you are and they want you to tell them if you aren't, because that's what friends are for isn't it? And if you're like me and are going through so much at the same time, talking realy does help. I kept my problems for myself for a very long time and that wasn't a good thing to do. And then one night, when I just couldn't take it anymore, I called a friend of mine and just told her everything, and you what she said? She said: "I wish you told this earlier so I could've helped you". And then I realised that it's okay to tell your problems to someone. So if you reading this, are dealing with some problems, call someone who can help you or just go up to your parents and tell them because believe me, they do care and do want to help you!

Another thing I have been dealing with recently is having to let go of some friends. The thing is, my 'best friend' isn't talking to me anymore and we kind of just aren't really friends anymore and in the beginning, this bothered me a lot because she did mean a lot to me but you can't please everyone and some friendships just don't last forever, and I realised that now. I sometimes still wish it was different but some people come and stay but some just come and then leave after a while, and also that is okay. You can impossibly keep everyone in your life. And when it's one of your best friends that decides to leave, it hurts at first but you still have your other friends and they didn't leave, you just have to accept the fact that people leave and new people come. And once again, if this bothers you, talk to someone about it, they might give you helpful advise and you might realise you are okay with them leaving.

And one last thing I want to talk about is being alone. This might seem scary to some people, having to go shopping alone, or just walking alone somewhere. Believe me, I had serious problems with this. I just always kept thinking that people would think I'm weird because I'm walking alone but they really don't care! They won't think you don't have any friends or something like that, they won't even think anything. They won't even see you probably (don't take this wrong) So it is okay to go somewhere by yourself, I even recommend it, I went shopping alone recently and I actually really enjoyed it, you just don't have to pay attention to anyone else and can just really focus on yourself and go to shops you want and stuff (:

I don't know if this post makes any sense but I just wanted to let you know that it's okay to be alone, sad, .. And it's also okay to talk to someone about that because you never know what great advice they might have! (:
Don't keep a problem you have for yourself for a long time because that will only make you more sad (:

I hope this helped a few of you because I don't want you to be sad (:
If you have any problems and you think you have nobody to talk to, you do, and if you want you can even talk to me, just send me something on twitter and I will be glad to help you! (:

xoxo,
Cato

Twitter: https://twitter.com/xCato__